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The Scent of God: A Memoir
by Beryl Singleton Bissell

Published: 2006-03-14
Hardcover : 304 pages
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The heartrending story of the forbidden love between a nun and a priest-by a writer who illuminates the details of everyday life, from the quiet rhythms of the cloister to the exuberant sensuality of the Amalfi Coast

When her family moves to Puerto Rico in the early 1950s, ...

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(The heartrending story of the forbidden love between a nun and a priest-by a writer who illuminates the details of everyday life, from the quiet rhythms of the cloister to the exuberant sensuality of the Amalfi Coast

When her family moves to Puerto Rico in the early 1950s, thirteen-year-old Beryl Bissell enters a milieu heady with sexuality and passion. Uncomfortable in her developing body and yearning for unconditional love, she becomes convinced that only God can satisfy her longing. On the day following her eighteenth birthday, she enters a cloistered convent in New Jersey, believing that God has called her to this way of life.

At first, she is blissfully happy. Within the year, however, she has become anorectic and prey to other obsessive compulsions. Her vocation at risk, she overcomes these disorders and perseveres for another ten years, until she must return home to Puerto Rico to help care for her ailing father.

Thrust once more into the sensual world of Puerto Rico, she discovers that religious garb cannot protect her from her budding sexuality. She is drawn to Padre Vittorio, a handsome Italian priest, and undergoes a belated coming of age. For the next three years, as she travels to and from the island, she struggles to reconcile human desire with spiritual longing. Unable to confide in either her mother or abbess, she tries to find the inner freedom that would allow her to love fully. The events that follow take the reader on a dizzying journey into the heart of desire, both spiritual and human.

In spare but lyric language, Bissell weaves a powerful story of love, death, guilt, and redemption-a pilgrimage that reaches beyond dogma to personal truth and evokes a transformation that changes not only herself, but the lives of those whom she loves most.

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Excerpt

This is the opening sequence of chapter 16 and takes place when, 12 years after I entered the monastery, my abbess sends me home to Puerto Rico to help care for my father--a journey that will transform my life. ... view entire excerpt...

Discussion Questions

Why do you think the author wanted to tell this story?

What does the title The Scent of God mean to you as a reader? Do you think this is an appropriate title for this book?

Were there sections of the story that had special impact on you and, if so, what were they and why did they affect you?

In the book, the author mentions four events as triggering her desire to become a nun: the death of the young boy on the beach, the dream after the school retreat, her mother’s intervention in her social life, the illness that triggered her promise to God. Why do you suppose these episodes affected her as they did? Were there other reasons why she would have chosen such a life? Do you think they were valid indicators of such a choice?

The author reveals the delight with which she entered the monastery and the gradual diminishment of this joy as she became anorexic. Do you think it was religious life that triggered her anorexia or might she have encountered similar compulsions had she stayed in the world?

The author reveals herself as immature both spiritually and emotionally – a seventeen-year-old in a thirty-year-old woman. Did you understand that this was “her” story or did you draw the conclusion that most nuns are immature in this way?

What is your impression of cloistered life as presented by the author? Do you think it is a valid way of life in today’s world? Do you relate to her experiences there or did they leave you feeling “outside” the realm of her experience?

Why do you think the author told this story as memoir rather than taking it into fiction? Do you think it could have been better told as fiction?

What did the author learn about her family from the years she spent going back and forth to Puerto Rico? How did her relationship with her parents change?

What were your reactions to the author’s recognition of her sexuality? Of her growing attraction to Padre Vittorio? Do you think she could have or should have made other choices?

Did you have any perceptions about priests and nuns prior to reading this book and, if so, did they change after reading this story? What are your insights into the issue of celibacy and religious life?

Would a reader need to believe in God or to be a Christian to read and enjoy this story?

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  "A nun tells her story about joining the cloister and a nun's life until she falls in love with a priest and becomes a wife and mother."by Hailey H. (see profile) 03/13/08

Great story. We talked to the author and gained more insight on her life and writing the book. It was a very neat experience and I liked the book more because of it. Easy to read and very thought provoking.... (read more)

 
  "Interesting perspective on personal desires vs God's desires"by Cheryl B. (see profile) 12/17/07

I liked this book. It was a pretty fast read. I enjoyed learning of how Beryl was able to make it through her personal struggle of how to best serve God.

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