No boundries were taught this child...like I want "some", bathing naked with mother, sucking on her tooth. I think that those were forms of sexualizing the relationship and it disgusted me each time i read "I want some"..."the left tastes better". Everything is a noun, yet he cooks and sews and shares all these memories and scarios - it doesnt match for me, especially since the moment life changes...he doesnt do it anymore. Boring, hecks yes. I would have tossed it in the trashed if it wasnt a book on my phone.